The update appears to roll out to different regions at different times.
Where I live (Australia), I do not expect to see the update in the playstore for at least 36hours after I see the first notifications for it online.
Sometimes I can force it if I restart my device to force a full reset of playstore to find it...but that only works after 24hours or so
If I am patient, then it will just auto install about 48 hours after I see the first online notifications.
TL/DR You may be able to force it with a restart, but your region may not have it released yet.